Thanks J I hope I am making headway in the "good" department. Admittedly there are always transgressions that get in the way. Like I said before... I try try try... at least i am intuitive enoughto recognize myself in stummbling position... Back to the topic of this post... Love is a remarkable gift. If given by a friend or lover, remember...pay it forward Best Lisa
Lisa,
I admire you for your thoughts...
Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back. ~Arthur Rubinstein Being in love is a good feeling...
Julie
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Thanks J I hope I am making headway in the "good" department. Admittedly there are always transgressions that get in the way. Like I said before... I try try try... at least i am intuitive enoughto recognize myself in stummbling position... Back to the topic of this post... Love is a remarkable gift. If given by a friend or lover, remember...pay it forward Best Lisa
Lisa,
I admire you for your thoughts...
Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back. ~Arthur Rubinstein Being in love is a good feeling...
Julie You sound like the kind of person any one would feel grateful to have in their life. The world needs pelple who work to make it a better place. Sounds like you are more than carrying your weight. Thank-You for all that you do. My gosh, it sounds like you have no time to sleep!! I wish I could say I am changing lives all over the world. I am just getting my legs under me in this second act. Perhaps when my sea legs are more stable I could help you out in some way. It would be great. Best Lisa
Lisa, thank you so much for those words..i do big work but I don't work long hours and many days..i work from home and when I travel I work..I get trained a lot..most of my work is from my computer and my brain.....I am fortunate that i can do big and make a difference and have so much time in my hand to have fun and to help out my family and do other things...trust me...I don't watch TV that much...I read the news while i do my research....Well I do watch a little..depends-:)
I have so many days off and so many weeks off that I can travel too...My skills helped me here...of course my ex BF was the biggest supporter and he still is...without his dictatorship and pressuring me...lol I could n ot do it..
We are all unique and do what we can to make a difference in our ways...You have already made a difference by being a good person and what you are doing now..
Julie
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Julie You sound like the kind of person any one would feel grateful to have in their life. The world needs pelple who work to make it a better place. Sounds like you are more than carrying your weight. Thank-You for all that you do. My gosh, it sounds like you have no time to sleep!! I wish I could say I am changing lives all over the world. I am just getting my legs under me in this second act. Perhaps when my sea legs are more stable I could help you out in some way. It would be great. Best Lisa
Lisa, thank you so much for those words..i do big work but I don't work long hours and many days..i work from home and when I travel I work..I get trained a lot..most of my work is from my computer and my brain.....I am fortunate that i can do big and make a difference and have so much time in my hand to have fun and to help out my family and do other things...trust me...I don't watch TV that much...I read the news while i do my research....Well I do watch a little..depends-:)
I have so many days off and so many weeks off that I can travel too...My skills helped me here...of course my ex BF was the biggest supporter and he still is...without his dictatorship and pressuring me...lol I could n ot do it..
We are all unique and do what we can to make a difference in our ways...You have already made a difference by being a good person and what you are doing now..
Lisa, Good question..I have a good life very satisfying life..not perfect..my mother is sick and my dad is very old...They need me and I have two sons who are living independently...I am alone, available and single but very busy helping anyone any way that I can...I donate money...I work to make a difference and to save millions all over the world.. I see innocent people suffering and dying from unwanted wars and poverty and human cruelty...
I am working hard to help those kind of people and millions around the world so they can live safe ....That is good life for me...but I work a few days a week to make that difference when I am not traveling...
Sure money, husband, good hone, and good cars and comfort are good for a lot of people..I can have all that easy and just stay here and enjoy lfie like a lot of people..But I want to make a difference and I am busy to do things for others too...
This is life for me and the journey that i take to reach my distination...it will be hard, bumpy and scary but I love it....I am a very important person because what I do....I know important folks and I g et prasied and get attentions from very important folks but I am who I am very humble and giving...
I do almsot anything that others do...I also date and socialize a lot, look good, travel, more work out and eat will and have many friends....and I know how to enjoy life...My life is really good...So a man who is willing to share my good life with me then he is welcome in my world.. Julie
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Julie Wondering what the best life is for you is a very personal thought process. Everyone has their own definition of success.. For my sister it is and always has been in regards to her career, keeping up with the neighbors. For me it has and always has been in regards to my heart. Not just with romance. The laughter I manage to coax out of a crying child... a hurting friend. When I keep my closet clean for a week. harvest vegetables from my garden that actually look worth eating. Oh yes, those little things float this girls boat. My dad used to say "I need nothing, I only want it." It worked for business sure, but when it came to love, I would venture to guess, if my mom had left him standing in the cold he would have changed his tune. I don't think anyone should put up with crap. The person who puts you through it is being selfish... you aren't the first person on their list. Perhaps not the second. Having it all is relative. It all is just what you want. No ones all is the same. Rock On Lisa
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Julie Wondering what the best life is for you is a very personal thought process. Everyone has their own definition of success.. For my sister it is and always has been in regards to her career, keeping up with the neighbors. For me it has and always has been in regards to my heart. Not just with romance. The laughter I manage to coax out of a crying child... a hurting friend. When I keep my closet clean for a week. harvest vegetables from my garden that actually look worth eating. Oh yes, those little things float this girls boat. My dad used to say "I need nothing, I only want it." It worked for business sure, but when it came to love, I would venture to guess, if my mom had left him standing in the cold he would have changed his tune. I don't think anyone should put up with crap. The person who puts you through it is being selfish... you aren't the first person on their list. Perhaps not the second. Having it all is relative. It all is just what you want. No ones all is the same. Rock On Lisa
Lisa, Good question..I have a good life very satisfying life..not perfect..my mother is sick and my dad is very old...They need me and I have two sons who are living independently...I am alone, available and single but very busy helping anyone any way that I can...I donate money...I work to make a difference and to save millions all over the world.. I see innocent people suffering and dying from unwanted wars and poverty and human cruelty...
I am working hard to help those kind of people and millions around the world so they can live safe ....That is good life for me...but I work a few days a week to make that difference when I am not traveling...
Sure money, husband, good hone, and good cars and comfort are good for a lot of people..I can have all that easy and just stay here and enjoy lfie like a lot of people..But I want to make a difference and I am busy to do things for others too...
This is life for me and the journey that i take to reach my distination...it will be hard, bumpy and scary but I love it....I am a very important person because what I do....I know important folks and I g et prasied and get attentions from very important folks but I am who I am very humble and giving...
I do almsot anything that others do...I also date and socialize a lot, look good, travel, more work out and eat will and have many friends....and I know how to enjoy life...My life is really good...So a man who is willing to share my good life with me then he is welcome in my world.. Julie
To me luck is our attitude and how we perceive things....I don't want to get married and I don't think about it because that helps me to take care of myself and follow my dreams...when we are happy with what we do and who we are...a lot of more happiness will be waiting for us..marriage is one of it...
Since I got this job , I have many men that want me and are closer than ever but I have learned that I am more important....He is there for me...I won't rush it at all...
They say how you see yourself and how happy you are with your life and yourself, you are the lucky person and that is how men will see you and want you more....so try to put your needs a nd your self first before anyone else and anything else then you will have it all..
I have learned the hard way...life is good f or me right now...because i am successful and want more success and want be pretty, taken care of and I am very healthy...and I have learned not to put up with BS.... Julie
Quoting Lisaprendergast
I hear ya W
They say we create our own reality. I think on some level that is true, but, I do believe there is also a huge component of luck mixed in. I know I have poohd in my own bedroom, so to speak. For me, at this point in my life, I am trying to stop getting in my own way. I keep trying, I forget, then I remember and try again. Hopefully I will get lucky while I am trying and then... Who knows???
Best Lisa
Quoting Lisaprendergast
I hear ya W
They say we create our own reality. I think on some level that is true, but, I do believe there is also a huge component of luck mixed in. I know I have poohd in my own bedroom, so to speak. For me, at this point in my life, I am trying to stop getting in my own way. I keep trying, I forget, then I remember and try again. Hopefully I will get lucky while I am trying and then... Who knows???
Best Lisa
To me luck is our attitude and how we perceive things....I don't want to get married and I don't think about it because that helps me to take care of myself and follow my dreams...when we are happy with what we do and who we are...a lot of more happiness will be waiting for us..marriage is one of it...
Since I got this job , I have many men that want me and are closer than ever but I have learned that I am more important....He is there for me...I won't rush it at all...
They say how you see yourself and how happy you are with your life and yourself, you are the lucky person and that is how men will see you and want you more....so try to put your needs a nd your self first before anyone else and anything else then you will have it all..
I have learned the hard way...life is good f or me right now...because i am successful and want more success and want be pretty, taken care of and I am very healthy...and I have learned not to put up with BS.... Julie
Lisa, I'll take that as a compliment,,oh shoot,, gotta run,, my Harem is getting restless ! LOL
Quoting Lisaprendergast
I kinda think you are probably one of the men in this world who has many many women who love you unconditionally. You are probably so surrounded by them, you don't see a one. Maybe I am wrong, Hmmm, maybe I'm right... Maybe I sound like Billy Joel and should just shut up right now!! Best Lisa
Quoting Lisaprendergast
I kinda think you are probably one of the men in this world who has many many women who love you unconditionally. You are probably so surrounded by them, you don't see a one. Maybe I am wrong, Hmmm, maybe I'm right... Maybe I sound like Billy Joel and should just shut up right now!! Best Lisa
Lisa, I'll take that as a compliment,,oh shoot,, gotta run,, my Harem is getting restless ! LOL
Lisa, I want to have a man next to me to grow with and to share my success, failures and my life with...That would be a dream come true..Some times our expectations and life style stand on our way...Mine do.... But who knows? my prince charming is waiting for me some where...out there.. Julie
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Th most amazing time in anyones life is when they are with someone who they can truly be them self with. An awe inspiring time to be forever cherished. What ever wants to be said is said with out fear. Who you are is faced with unconditional love and acceptance. There is security that comes from this kind of relationship. You will never be alone again, You will stand together. Your shortcomings will be gazed upon with patience. Love. Perhaps not agreement. Nope that would be to easy.
The challenges of life are the issues at hand. Commitment is never up for grabs.
Everyone has it in them. Everyone recognizes it from a mile away. Suddenly life takes on a journey of two. Battles are always faced with the solace that there is at least one person beside you.
That wild abandon that tells your insides to relax... no matter what, you are not on your own.
I watched my mom and dad live this life for 53 years. They both were ten times more successful than they would ever been alone. They flourished, they fought, they made it together.
To be with someone you can say anything to is to stand twice as tall as when the only one who knows your thought is yourself. If not a mate then a friend. Notice those people. Love them for the great gift they offer. Make sure to return the favor.
Best
Lisa
Quoting Lisaprendergast
Th most amazing time in anyones life is when they are with someone who they can truly be them self with. An awe inspiring time to be forever cherished. What ever wants to be said is said with out fear. Who you are is faced with unconditional love and acceptance. There is security that comes from this kind of relationship. You will never be alone again, You will stand together. Your shortcomings will be gazed upon with patience. Love. Perhaps not agreement. Nope that would be to easy.
The challenges of life are the issues at hand. Commitment is never up for grabs.
Everyone has it in them. Everyone recognizes it from a mile away. Suddenly life takes on a journey of two. Battles are always faced with the solace that there is at least one person beside you.
That wild abandon that tells your insides to relax... no matter what, you are not on your own.
I watched my mom and dad live this life for 53 years. They both were ten times more successful than they would ever been alone. They flourished, they fought, they made it together.
To be with someone you can say anything to is to stand twice as tall as when the only one who knows your thought is yourself. If not a mate then a friend. Notice those people. Love them for the great gift they offer. Make sure to return the favor.
Best
Lisa
Lisa, I want to have a man next to me to grow with and to share my success, failures and my life with...That would be a dream come true..Some times our expectations and life style stand on our way...Mine do.... But who knows? my prince charming is waiting for me some where...out there.. Julie
As always, Lisa, your vision of love and friendship inspires. I heard it said once that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is the one person you would trust to write your biograpy...to witness your life and write you into a best-seller. NiceGuy said so...seems simple enough, just interpret me the way I mean to be. But, then again, if we had that, we wouldn't feel the need to blog ourselves, lol.
As always, Lisa, your vision of love and friendship inspires. I heard it said once that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is the one person you would trust to write your biograpy...to witness your life and write you into a best-seller. NiceGuy said so...seems simple enough, just interpret me the way I mean to be. But, then again, if we had that, we wouldn't feel the need to blog ourselves, lol.
The key to unconditional love, be it friend, family or partner.......never judge another, just accept who they are....complete with opinions, flaws, and all the love they have, hold and give away.....and love them anyway!
Great thoughts Lisa!
The key to unconditional love, be it friend, family or partner.......never judge another, just accept who they are....complete with opinions, flaws, and all the love they have, hold and give away.....and love them anyway!
Great thoughts Lisa!
"The best way to predict the future....Is to create it."
Lisa,, I look forward to the day when I meet a woman that understands me so well,, and she also understands, I would never ever do anything intentionally to hurt her. this seems like such a simple thing,, but so difficult to find !
Lisa,, I look forward to the day when I meet a woman that understands me so well,, and she also understands, I would never ever do anything intentionally to hurt her. this seems like such a simple thing,, but so difficult to find !
